Popular relationship coach and clergyman, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has stirred conversation online with a thought-provoking question aimed at men who are over 30, employed, and still say they’re “not ready” for marriage.
The Big Question
In a recent message, Pastor Kingsley asked:
“When a man has a job and is over 30 but says he’s not ready for marriage… what exactly does he mean?”
This question has since sparked debate on social media, especially among young men and women navigating love, career, and commitment.
What He’s Pointing Out
Pastor Kingsley, known for his strong teachings on love and relationships, is suggesting that at a certain age and level of stability, some excuses may be more about fear or unwillingness than actual unpreparedness.
He seems to be highlighting that many men delay commitment not because they can’t marry, but because they don’t want to,even when they are financially and emotionally capable.
Mixed Reactions Online
The post quickly divided opinions:
Supporters agreed with the clergyman, saying many men hide behind the “not ready” excuse even when they tick all the boxes for marriage.
Critics, however, argued that being “ready” is about more than money or age. For some men, it includes emotional maturity, personal goals, and mental stability.
A Deeper Message About Responsibility
Pastor Kingsley’s point challenges men to reflect on their true reasons for holding off on marriage. He wants men to understand that stalling relationships without clear direction can waste time,especially for partners hoping for long-term commitment.
It’s also a message to women: be mindful of partners who keep delaying marriage without valid or clear reasons, even when they seem “ready” on paper.
Love Requires Clarity
While every person’s journey is different, Pastor Kingsley reminds us that clarity, purpose, and readiness to build with someone are key signs of maturity in a relationship. His message encourages men to be honest,with themselves and with the women in their lives.
Written By Fortune Davidson
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