The Truth About Living in Lagos: “No One Stays for Free” Comedian Acapella Sets the Record Straight

Popular Nigerian comedian, Acapella, recently voiced his frustration over a growing misconception that some people live in Lagos without paying rent or contributing to household expenses. In a viral statement, he declared, “This silly host narrative must stop. Nobody in Lagos lives in a house for free.” His comment sparked conversation, and it’s worth unpacking why his message matters and how it reflects the harsh reality of living in a bustling city like Lagos.

What Is the “Host Narrative”?

In Nigerian society, especially in urban areas like Lagos, there’s a recurring notion that some people,usually friends or relatives,are being hosted in someone’s home for free. The assumption is that they do not pay rent, buy food, or contribute to household bills. These individuals are often labeled as freeloaders.

But Acapella is challenging this belief, especially in the context of Lagos, one of the most expensive cities in Africa. He believes it’s misleading and disrespectful to paint people as “burdens” when most are doing their best to survive and contribute, even if it’s not through direct rent payments.

Living in Lagos Is Not Cheap

Let’s be real,Lagos is tough. From rent to food, transportation, and electricity, the cost of living is high. Even those who don’t directly pay rent often make other important contributions. Some might buy food, fuel the generator, pay light bills, or even take care of other household needs.

Saying someone is staying “for free” often ignores the unseen sacrifices and shared responsibilities that come with living under the same roof.

Dignity and Shared Struggles

Acapella’s message is not just a rant,it’s a call for empathy. Many young Nigerians move to Lagos in search of better opportunities. In their early days, they may rely on friends or family for shelter. This doesn’t make them lazy or irresponsible. Instead, it reflects a common African value: community support.

Labeling them as freeloaders kills the spirit of unity and adds unnecessary shame. We should recognize the hustle and struggle that comes with trying to find one’s feet in a fast-paced city.

Let’s Stop the Judgment

Acapella is urging people to stop using the term “host” in a way that sounds demeaning. Instead of mocking others or keeping score, let’s uplift one another. Today, someone may be staying with you. Tomorrow, the tables might turn. Life is unpredictable.

If we truly believe in building a better society, we must learn to respect each other’s journeys,especially in a city as challenging as Lagos.Comedian Acapella’s viral remark may have sounded funny, but its message is powerful. No one in Lagos lives for free without giving something back,be it financial, emotional, or in kind. Let’s drop the “silly host narrative” and focus on supporting, not shaming, those who are doing their best in tough times.

Written By Fortune Davidson